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Desiree wrote,
First of all, I love reading your replies to members.
I have a 32-year-old Goffin cockatoo and I see a change in him since my husband passed away 3 months ago.
He has always been my bird and seemed aggressive toward my husband most of the time. That is why I am stumped as to why he seems to have changed.
More quiet, sleeping more, preening a lot and even plucking at times. Any ideas? Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thank you and have a wonderful day.
Desiree
Catherine replied
Dear Desiree
Our birds may seem almost human to us and we think they understand everything, but they don’t.
Even if your bird did not care for your husband he was still a flock mate, a family member who is now GONE.
Your bird may wonder what happened, where did he go? He may have assumed he would show back up but hasn’t and may be concerned if is he next.
I would consider hanging a picture up of your husband so your bird feels that his presence is still with you both. You can carry him over to it and you can talk calmly to it and to your bird. It may help.
But much like the joke where the parrot sees a turkey in the freezer and thinks that he might be next, your bird may feel vulnerable for a while.
Just offer love, a regular schedule of treats, play time, etc and over the next few months, your bird will feel better.
Regards,
Catherine.
Desiree replies:
Can’t thank you enough for your time and the picture is a wonderful idea.
I have plenty in the bedroom but not where he spends most of his time. Again thank you
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